This question may have been asked a million times, but it hadn’t occurred to me until recently- why is banana pudding always served as dessert at BBQ restaurants? Not that I am complaining at all- I love banana pudding, it is one of my favorites. It is such a staple at my favorite BBQ haunts, that I have always taken it for granted, but we had a curious experience up in the Catskills pertaining to BBQ that got me interested in this question. We were down in the small town of Phoenicia down at the bottom of the mountain, and we saw a BBQ stand. Intrigued and thinking this might be a quick and easy thing to grab for dinner, we went to the stand to buy some BBQ to take home with us. When Corby asked to buy 3 lbs of BBQ, the proprietor of the stand was incredibly confused and asked, “Do you want a 3 lb sandwich?” “No, no- we just want to buy 3 lbs of BBQ- you know, in bulk.” This did not actually help. “In bulk? I don’t know what you mean,” our friendly salesman said. When Corby then said, “You know- in bulk- so we can take it home… for dinner… later… We are from South Carolina,” we just got completely blank stares. “Well do you at least have any banana pudding?” I asked- more stares. Clearly, we were speaking different languages when it came to BBQ. We laughed about this the whole way home, and I am sure they laughed about the crazies from South Carolina who wanted a 3lb BBQ sandwich for a long time too. So, needless to say, we will be waiting until we return back south to get some BBQ- especially in bulk. But, I did start wondering why banana pudding is always served BBQ. After some googling, I haven’t found an answer. It seems that bananas were imported (as they are not naturally found in the United States) from Mexico, Brazil, Costa Rica, etc, so it makes sense that they would be more abundant in the South. Vanilla Wafers weren’t around until 1901-1902, and while they make banana pudding that much better, that is no explanation. My explanation would be that some genius was eating BBQ and then had banana pudding for dessert and thought, “Now those are the two best things I have ever eaten and should always be together.” I applaud that person and agree whole-heartedly. Here is the original Nilla Wafer Banana Pudding recipe from Nabisco (http://www.nabiscoworld.com/recipes/recipe.aspx?recipe_id=55431), and if you have any other insights to this issue, please share!!
Banana Pudding and BBQ
Jul 16th, 2012 by Meg
Ingredients:
3/4 cup sugar, divided
1/3 cup flour
dash salt
3 eggs, separated
2 cups milk
1/2 tsp. vanilla
45 NILLA Wafers, divided
5 bananas, sliced
Preparation:
MIX 1/2 cup sugar, flour and salt in top of double boiler. Blend in 3 egg yolks and milk. Cook, uncovered, over boiling water 10 to 12 min. or until thickened, stirring constantly. Remove from heat; stir in vanilla.
RESERVE 12 wafers for garnish. Spread small amount of custard onto bottom of 1-1/2-qt. baking dish. Cover with layers of 1/3 each of the remaining wafers, bananas and remaining custard. Repeat layers 2 times.
BEAT egg whites on high speed of mixer until soft peaks form. Gradually beat in remaining sugar until stiff peaks form. Spread over custard, sealing well to edge of dish.
BAKE 15 to 20 min. or until lightly browned. Cool slightly. Top with reserved wafers just before serving.

I laughed and laughed at your account of your BBQ encounter. It’s hard for non-Southerners to understand how serious we are about BBQ.
Regarding Banana Pudding, the only insight I have into why it’s so popular with BBQ is that it’s goes with anything! I think the original recipe is the best, too. That’s the only way I make it. Banana pudding is one recipe that needs to be made the old fashioned way. No convenience items.
Thanks Jackie! It was too funny! Can’t wait to get back south to some real BBQ and banana pudding. Hope you are having a wonderful summer!
Like peas and carrots – banana pudding and BBQ. Great post. I’ll be trying it soon.
At what temperature do you bake the meringue? Enquiring minds and all that.
Sandy- bake the meringues at 200 degrees overnight- good luck- they are so yummy!!
i love banana puding so much that i will eat the puding….